Not a Fan

While everyone around me is getting ready for the holidays, or just getting over them, I'm stuck here wondering about the human condition.

It's no surprise that there are things I like and things I don't care so much about, but it might be surprising that I don't really consider myself to be a fan of much of anything, not even of those things I really, really enjoy.

I see this all the time on the Internet, people rushing to the defense of things they like or cheering on their teams, and I just don't get it. In sports, it looks like when you root for one side you're required to see nothing your team does as deserving of a penalty while everything the other side does is wrong and a flagrant foul. In books, games, movies, and literature, people who are fans seem to go out of their way to justify what others see as flaws, and fanwaking takes up most of their time.

Fanwaking, of course, is one of my favorite words, and might even be a real one. It's pretty much the term used to describe going out of one's way to explain something that any normal person would see as a plot hole, but mostly just reflects our human need to justify.

I don't know why, but I can't feel this need, and I can't even call myself a fan of just about anything. Maybe I am, but just stubbornly refuse to admit it, or maybe I'm lacking what it takes to commit myself wholeheartedly to things.

I'll be among the first to defend something or someone if they're being wronged, but I'd like to think my support isn't blind. When someone criticizes something I like, I can get hurt, sure, but if there's some value in what's said, I have to consider that. Maybe it's part of it, but when someone or something I claim to love is criticized, I don't feel personally threatened and usually don't take it personally.

It may be, though, that I'm so reluctant to defend others because I'm not often defended and never learned that's how things are supposed to work. I do know, though, that if I say anything bad about Dragon Age or some other popular game that I'll be attacked up and down the Internet by fans of the game who will dismiss and diminish anything I say without even considering it.

And I can't do much about it. Maybe I'm built in such a way as to always first attempt to see the other side and not just instictively close my mind to anything and everything said by those with whom I disagree. I don't much care for Sarah Palin's views, but I don't hate her, and whenever she comes up with some new pronouncement, my first reaction is to try to understand where she's coming from.

This entry is rambling, at best, but it's mostly just a test to see if this blogging software works with my updated Wordpress. If you've read this far, enjoy the holidays!